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Generate personalised wedding vows instantly. Tell us about your partner and get three full vow drafts in 90 seconds — a starting point that sounds like you, not a robot.
Why couples love it
You know how you feel. You just need someone to help you say it without sounding like a greeting card. That's the gap our vow generator fills — a structured first draft, personalised to your relationship, ready for you to edit and own.
Fill in three short fields and you get three full vow drafts. Total time: about 90 seconds.
Your partner's name, how you met, and one unique thing about them get woven in — so the vows sound like you, not a template.
Different opening, different promises, different closing. Pick the one that lands, or borrow your favourite line from each.
The art of it
Four short rules. Apply them to the drafts above and you'll end up with vows worth crying through.
Not 'I love your smile' — 'I love how you laughed when the dog ate my notes the night before my driving test'. Specifics turn a generic vow into yours.
Pick the promises only you could make to this specific person. Three concrete ones beat thirty generic ones every time.
Aim for 60–90 seconds. Anything longer and the room starts holding its breath for you, which is sweet but stressful.
End with one line your partner will hear, but the people who love both of you will also feel. That's the line that gets the audible 'aww'.
By style
A taste of how each style reads. Generate above to get a full personalised version with your partner's name woven in.
Romantic
“I love you in ways that are gentle when you need gentle, and brave when you need brave. Today, tomorrow, and every quiet ordinary morning after.”
Funny
“I promise to always pretend the burnt dinner was 'actually really good' — and to share the duvet, the snacks, and roughly 73% of the wardrobe.”
Short & Sweet
“Every day with you feels like coming home. I choose you. Today, tomorrow, always.”
Modern
“This isn't the cinematic version of love. It's the real one. I'm in — all of it.”
The template
Almost every vow that makes the room cry follows the same four-part shape. Use it as a checklist for your own draft — or let the generator above build it for you.
One or two lines that name what this person actually is in your life — not 'you're my everything', but 'you're the person who makes airports and dentist waiting rooms feel like somewhere I want to be'.
Pick a single specific moment that captures your relationship — the night you met, a tiny everyday ritual, the time they showed up for you. One real story beats a list of adjectives.
Three is the magic number. Mix a big one ('to choose you on the hard days') with a small, true one ('to always let you have the last roast potato'). The small ones are what people remember.
End looking forward, not back — the life you're promising to build. Give the room one last line that lands the emotion and signals you're done.
More examples
Whatever your story — first marriage or second, a blended family, a quiet ceremony or a big one — there's a vow that fits. Here's how a few of them sound.
Heartfelt & emotional
“You are the calm I didn't know I was looking for. I promise to keep choosing you — in the loud years and the quiet ones, through every version of us still to come.”
Modern & conversational
“I'm not going to pretend I have this all figured out. But I know I want to figure it out with you. So here it is, in front of everyone: I'm all in.”
Blended family / with kids
“When I married my way into your life, I got the whole beautiful package — and I promise to show up for all of it, every school run, every bedtime, every messy ordinary day.”
Second time around
“I know exactly what I'm promising, and I'm promising it on purpose. With everything I've learned, I choose you — eyes open, heart steadier than it's ever been.”
After you say them
Your photographer will catch your face. A wedding photo QR code catches everyone else's — including the videos of your vows from every guest's phone.
Scan to try!
FAQ
Yes — totally free, no signup, no credit card. Generate as many drafts as you want. We built it because every couple deserves a starting point that doesn't sound like every other wedding speech.
You give it three small bits of information — your partner's name, a sentence about how you met, and one unique thing about them. The tool weaves those details into a personalised vow in your chosen style and length.
No. Because the generator uses your real details — names, how you met, what you love about them — every set of drafts is different. The more specific your inputs, the more personal the output.
You can, but we recommend editing. Read each draft aloud and swap any sentence that doesn't sound like you. The best vows are the ones where the AI gave you a starting point and you made them your own.
Four styles: Romantic, Funny, Short & Sweet, and Modern. Pair each with short, medium, or long to fine-tune the length for your ceremony.
Either. The Romantic style follows the traditional structure (love, promise, commitment). Modern is more conversational. Funny adds humour. Short & Sweet works for couples who want a meaningful 30-second moment.
Use the Copy button under any draft, then paste into your notes app, a Google Doc, or print them on a card. Nothing is saved on our servers — your vows stay with you.
You still write your own vows — the generator gives you a structured first draft that already sounds the way you want. Most couples use it to break the blank-page panic, then edit from there.
Aim for 60 to 90 seconds spoken — roughly 150 to 250 words. That's long enough to say something real and short enough to keep the whole room with you. Read your draft out loud and time it; if it runs past two minutes, cut your weakest promise.
A good vow has four parts: who your partner is to you, one specific story, a few concrete promises, and a line about the future. Our 'simple vow structure' above walks through each part, and every generated draft already follows it.
Absolutely. The generator doesn't assume gender, religion, or ceremony type — it builds vows around your names and your story, so they work for any couple and any kind of ceremony, religious or secular.
That's exactly what this is for. Enter your partner's name, one line on how you met, and one thing you love about them, and you'll have three complete drafts to react to. It's far easier to edit a draft than to face a blank page.
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